This opinion piece reflects the views of the author and is intended to encourage conversation. The inclusion of this article does not mean that people cannot hold differing views on the subjects discussed.
The news broke on a morning show, not unlike a thousand other celebrity announcements. Rapper Cardi B and her partner, Stefon Diggs, are expecting a child.1 But for a global superstar, the announcement was met with a familiar, ugly chorus of public scrutiny: was her career over? What about her other kids? How will this impact her touring schedule?
While the internet debated her decisions, one key fact was lost in the noise: this isn’t just gossip. It’s the latest chapter in a long, brutal history of society policing Black and Brown women’s bodies; a history that has a direct and deadly link to the U.S. maternal mortality crisis.
This control began during slavery, when Black women were forced to have children to increase their owners’ wealth.2 Their bodies were treated as property, not people.2 Even after slavery ended, the control didn’t stop. In the 1900s, not only were Black women were sterilized without, they were labeled “unfit” to have children, while the system kept close watch over their bodies.2
That history shows up in healthcare today. In the U.S., Black women are two to three times more likely to die from pregnancy complications than white women, no matter their income or education.3 This happens because of systemic racism, bias from doctors, and a lack of trust built from generations of harm.3 Too often, Black and Brown women have their pain ignored, their concerns dismissed, and their role as mothers judged. So when the public questions Cardi B’s ability to be a “good mother” or the timing of her pregnancy, it mirrors the same pattern of control.
Cardi B’s journey, from a former dancer to a global star, is a story of fighting back. When she publicly took back power over her sexuality in songs like “WAP,” she was fighting against the idea that Black women’s sexuality is dirty or shameful. Her transparency about her cosmetic surgery is a similar act of defiance, a choice to alter her body for herself in a society that has historically sought to control it for others.
Her unapologetic persona challenges respectability politics, but it is her motherhood that reveals the most profound and persistent form of policing. The moment a woman’s body becomes a vessel for a child, it is often no longer seen as her own but as a public resource subject to judgment, debate, and control.
Ultimately, Cardi B’s existence is a constant, visible challenge to a system that seeks to contain and define Black and Brown bodies. By simply living her life—by being loud, by being a mother, by being herself—she forces us to confront the hypocrisy of a society that claims to celebrate diversity while simultaneously trying to shrink Black and Brown women into palatable, non-threatening boxes.
Maybe you don’t know the weight of the decisions mothers and birthing people carry, but the harmful patterns they face still affect everyone. Every time someone asks, “But what about the kids?” it’s not just a harmless question; it is part of a centuries-old story of control. The question for you is: Are you helping to tell that old story, or are you helping to write a new one?
The policing of Black and Brown bodies won’t end with one article, one headline, or even one celebrity. But your voice—your truth—carries power. When you share it, you chip away at silence and help shift the culture. That’s why in NOWINCLUDED’s women’s health circle, your story isn’t just welcomed, it’s needed. Come join us in continuing the conversation, and together we can build the community we all deserve.
References
- King, G. (2025, September 16). Cardi B talks to Gayle King ahead of new album, “Am I the Drama?”: “Sometimes certain things just follow certain people”. Retrieved from CBS Mornings: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/cardi-b-im-the-drama-album/
- Posey, B. M. (2023). Reproductive slavery: Historical and present-day discussions of the Black female body as a condition of confinement. Women’s Studies International Forum. doi:https://doi.org/10.1016/j.wsif.2023.102741
- Howell, E. A. (2018). Reducing Disparities in Severe Maternal Morbidity and Mortality. Clinical Obstetrics and Gynecology. doi:10.1097/GRF.0000000000000349

